Getting our Bearings, Coordinates and Course Heading for Kids

Deuteronomy 6:5-7



"Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up."



Bringing our faith, prayer and practice to our children within the church will impact their lives as well as the lives of others. But how we do this has certainly changed over the years. We now have the best technology along with the best teaching strategies based on children's learning styles than we have ever had in the past. Yet, there might be something missing.



Who really should be leading the children spiritually on a daily basis? A new (but probably very old) shift in children's ministry could very well impact the lives of every child and every family touched by a children's ministry based on feeding our children's hungry hearts each day at home with their families. Brian Haynes talks about this in his new book "Shift" where he speaks about bringing families together to spiritually equip this next generation. We could do this with our children in our families today.



"God Sightings" is one way. They can be easily explained by encouraging family members to develop a sense of God's loving presence in our every day lives. Examples may be looking for God's love at a sporting event or simply placing a fun treat and a note on a family member's pillow.





Also, planning time for intentional "Faith Talks" where a time is set aside for weekly conversations based on Scripture. It may be "family devotions" around the fireplace or a walk in the snowy woods, or other creative times...even a trip to Walmart. You can talk about your God Sightings on these journeys and pray and praise God for what He has done.



Through our Sunday evening programs, and studies, I hope to provide scripture and guidelines based on our evening Bible studies that will provide a plan and outline for God Sightings and Faith Talks.



Other events, such as our Fun Fest Survivor Night and Easter Caroling will provide many opportunities to have material for leading weekly Faith Talks with the family.



Our bearings-Scripture, our coordinates-God Sightings, and our Course-Faith Talks with prayer can be possible.

Friday, October 8, 2010

Not only Fun


Romans 8:28-30 (NRSV)
We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, who are called according to his purpose. For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn within a large family. And those whom he predestined he also called; and those whom he called he also justified; and those whom he justified he also glorified.

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Jesus said, "Happy are those whose greatest desire is to do what God requires; God will satisfy them fully."
- Matthew 5:6 (TEV)


Haven't you heard other parents (and probably yourself) saying to children, "Let's try it...it will be fun". Yep, and maybe that trip to the first day of school will be fun...or maybe not.
We all enjoy having fun on trips, watching a good movie with buttered popcorn, and playing a good game of tennis, etc. It's ok to have fun. But when having fun is the only motivator for all activities, there will be a letdown at some time. I'm sure I've said that to my own children when they were growing up, but I'll be careful with these grandchildren. The value of a book, school, an activity, a Sunday School class should not be measured by "fun" only.
The thrill of discovery, excitement of accomplishments and bonds of friendship indeed are precious in our lives and we can teach our children to appreciate all of life.

Activity:
1, At the dinner table or in the car, share a recent experience you have had with your child. It may have been the excitement of seeing the leaves change color in your back yard, or laughing when you heard your young child say a new word...a little differently from the norm. My grandson and granddaughter say or do something hilarious each day while they are getting their baths.
2. Play "popcorn" and think of as many things that happened in the day that made you feel proud, show love, find a new way to teach a concept to a class, praise God with a song, etc.
3. Get some balloons and each person (depending on age) to blow up the ballon until it pops or blow it up and try to pop it by sitting on it. The blowing up of the balloon is work and difficult for some. It takes time and everyone is cheering and laughing while watching each other. It's the excitement and the journey along the way that may be "fun" and not the destination itself when the balloon pops.

Let's work hard at teaching our kids different ways to enjoy life...not just having "fun" but the events, and even the work along the way can be enjoyable.

Prayer: Lord, help us to think about what You want us to do to stay happy. Help us to always praise your name in all we do.

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